Wednesday, September 30, 2009

At last we went to a clinic

We went to a clinic in tapah.. My son was complaining about his fever.. When i felt his forehead.. It was hot... He was having fever...

We had to wait till evening because the doctor will arrive after maghrib.. After he had finished checking danny... The doctor told us that danny is having a slight fever... And he prescribed some medicines for danny... Hopefully danny will be ok within these few days..

Fin...
My son and i

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Went to tesco kampar

Danny told us that his ribena and milo were finished. So i decided to go to tesco kampar and do some shoppings..

After we had bought the items needed... We went to the food court... Danny loved to eat chicken rice that he called nasi lemak.. He finished the rice but the chicken was left untouched... Maybe due to hari raya ... He had taken a lot of chickens perhaps that made him bored for a while....

Fin
my son and i

Monday, September 28, 2009

Danny to taman malaysia

It had been ages since i took danny to taman malaysia.. Maybe because of h1n1 i dare not to take any risks.. So danny has to bear the situation at the moment...

I was really not feeling very well.. Maybe tomorrow i wont be able to work.. I need to lay down and have a plenty of rest... I should have done that... Maybe im going to get fever... Everytime i blow my breath.. I can feel that my breath is getting warmer.. Thats sign of fever maybe...

Danny had recover from fever.. thanked to his nanny.. She bathe danny twice so it lowered his body heat at once....

Lets hope for the best tomorrow...

Fin...
My son and i

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Danny and i



Today, both of us are not feeling very well....
Danny is having red eyes... Whereas i myself got soar throat.. And i think my body temperature is high.... Hopefully by tomorrow my body heat will be normal.....
Next two days.... School will be opened again.... So i have to start working... Kinda dejavu, last year hari raya... About a week after that i had fever.... Is it because of the heat from all the hari raya cookies?
Fin...
life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
 

Friday, September 25, 2009

my wife and son


my wife and son, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

having travel to and fro, from tapah to ipoh during hari raya..... it was really exhausting... danny enjoyed it...my wife enjoyed it.... and me... haih.....

hari raya is the best day to ask for forgiveness... maybe because of a month fasting... our heart seemed soften..... willing to forgive....
bapak mertuaku my father in law

whatever it is.. this hari raya is the best hari raya for...
my son and i

fin..

life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
sole/soul provider

Monday, September 21, 2009

life sometimes...

its nearly 3 am in the morning....
i just got back from chatting with friends...
and the shocking part was one of my friend is getting a divorce after a solid 9 years of marriage.... i never thought of that as i assumed their marriage is full of happiness.... but i was wrong... nearly 2 hours he was sharing/expressing his sadness over the matters. and i did lend my ears as well.

he was a sole provider in his family... all needs were fulfilled by him as he knew he was the head of the family but his wife still had not satisfy. it may be one sided story yet my friend and i listened to the story attentively(3 of us).

my friend had everything.. from a to z, just name them.. he can provide them all...
well paid job.., getting a maid for her wife... and he asked for nothing from his wife... then i realized ... money is not everything. come to think of that, i should be thankful... my wife did not complaining as our rice pot fits enough for three of us.

my friend told, it began when he went offshore to work and left his wife with the wonder of internet... later his wife spent more time chatting through internet rather than him when he was at home. from there, he suspected his wife met someone and the troubles began..

out of blue, one day... his wife asked for a divorce... he coaxed her but she refused and asked him to accept her decision...

now... they are living in the same house but in the different room.. it is like "a house but not a home"... i asked him how he feel about his wife.. he replied.... she is not here... pointing at his heart.
they are waiting for the final decision made by court of syariah.. it is kind of complicated to settle the case as it involves the right to keep their children(they have two children, the rightful ownership of their house and many more.

he must be sad right now... i can feel it....


life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
what lies ahead...

my family


my family, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

this year i managed to capture a full family photo. it was taken by my brother in law. this time, the quality of the photo is the best! thanks to him.

picture of me, before i went to mosque in the morning to perform solat.
after that i went to my mother in law house.

pagi syawal snapshot alone

life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
sole/soul provider

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Today is hari raya

Today is hari raya... Smiley faces everywhere...
New clothes to be wear..
No heart left to be despair..

Happy hari raya where ever you are...

Fin.
My son and i

Sending them

I was sending danny and my wife to her mother' house.. I did this for the past 6 years...

During hari raya.. I sent both of them because i wanted my wife to meet her other siblings... And danny would meet his cousins as well.. And i myself would remain alone in my house...

Fin
my son and i

Danny and his songkok (hat)

Danny was really excited to try his songkok for hari raya tomorrow...

2 years ago... He cant bear anything to cover his head... But now he seemed to bear it enough...

Tomorrow will be hari raya... A festive, moslems celebrate after a month fasting.... Everyone is preparing for the celebration and danny will meet his cousins at my in law house....

I am off to send them... Continue later....

Fin...
My son and i

Friday, September 18, 2009

my grandmother


opah aku, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

this is my grandma......
she is 80 years old.....
staying alone by herself....
every fortnight.... we will visit her.... and danny loves to meet her great grandmother....

day after tomorrow will be hari raya (eidulfitri, a celebration after fasting month) on the first day in the afternoon, once again.... we are going to celebrate the festive at my grandmother's house.

there will be a lot of people, my aunts and uncles. During this festive... the whole family will gather around......

fin...
my son and i
enroute to bazar ramadhan langkap p30

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

danny as always....


danny as always...., originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

we have to divided our task to take care danny while we were out to bazar ramadan..so, it will be easier for my wife to buy our needs...

during fasting month, almost everyday we went out in the afternoon, to bazaar ramadan in search for food.....

we did few rounds..... at first i will take care danny,then his mother's turn later.. three of us walk along together..... so far these steps helps a lot.......

fasting month left only 2 days.... we for sure will miss the great time during ramadan..not only for food but also the strength given during that time.....

fin
my son and i

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Sometimes we were on bike

If the sky permits i will take danny for a ride on our bike...

It was just a small bike..but it brought happiness to everyone..

Fin..
My son and i

tapah hari raya cookies sale!!

yup.. it was time for us.... shop till drop for hari raya cookies!!
as hari raya is just around the corner, my wife is hunting for hari raya cookies.... but most of the items she bought... were only crackers made from tapioca.....

i bought dodol mixed with durian.... wah the smell was so arousing that made my mouth watering non stop....

danny was looking at his favorite one.... that he found one!

tapah hari raya cookies sale!!

these are my favourite cookies.... pineapple tart... but i prefer hand made cookies instead of "factory based" cookies.... kinda typical but true!

tapah hari raya cookies sale!!
these are my wife favourite... crackers!

we still got a few more days to go..... i am still searching for a songkok that will fit danny comfortably..... maybe tomorrow i will travel a bit further in order to find him one...


fin
life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
sole/soul provider

Monday, September 14, 2009

danny 3 years old


DSC00366, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

DSC00262


managed to pluck out the photo from flickr...
when i saw the date it was taken 2007.....

We went to bazaar ramadan in tapah....
I can see danny was hungry... Later we bought yong taufu for him... Not only that we also bought some chicken wings(grilled).. Laksa... And also some kueh...

I was looking for fried noodles... But found none... Then i bought laksam... (It is not my favourite but i give it a try)

fin
my son and i

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Danny's favourite, laksa

My wife loves laksa very much.. Same it goes with danny...

Everytime when we went to any night markets.. Danny will ask for his laksa... But not for me.. I seldom had laksa because i could'nt stand the smell of fish that they used... i preferred fried noodles instead.

The best place to have laksa is in kuala kangsar.. That is the place where laksa made from rice flour was born.. My wife will never miss the chance to eat laksa everytime we went there...

Another picture was taken by danny himself... He was shocked to see someone was hanging up the the gorilla doll..on the rambutan tree...


Fin
my son and i

Saturday, September 12, 2009

my son and my wife


my son and my wife, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

danny was eating lemang.....


my son and i
it was a tiring day ... the weather was hot and clear and it rose the feeling of thirstiness...
i was curling myself,lost in deep slumber... lost unto my bed... till in the distance i heard strange but noticable noise.... wake up!! its time for bazaar ramadhan.... haih.... my wife woke me up....

so, we went to bazaar ramadhan in taman perpaduan... to be frank... my thirsty was quite unbearable.... (fasting month)

bubor lambuk dii taman perpaduan then i saw many people were lining up for free bubor lambok (rice porridge) and i joined them too.....

after we had break our fast, we went to rainbow (a shopping complex) because we wanted/had to buy danny new apparels for hari raya... and (coughing) kids apparels were costly enough..their price was almost par with adults apparels...
danny was trying his new pants for hari raya nanti

and for me and my wife.... we bought nothing... its all about danny....
most parents did that.....

life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
what lies ahead...

Thursday, September 10, 2009

running around


running around, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

danny slept early because he had been running around the field. he was so atheletic and asked me to join... as usual... i cant!! running is not in my list!!

at night.. before he went to sleep.. he asked my permission to watch new disney movie... UP...

the movie was great.. no wonder my son loved it!!

life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
what lies ahead...

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

fast and feast at tesco kampar ( my son and i)

so typical to live in tapah..... if you wish to be a bit out of the box then you have to set off to somewhere else... in this case.... we went to kampar..... tesco..

fast and feast at tesco kampar
what to say.... i thought it was only me, but my son also shared the same feelings over the thingies like those.... we shared the same interest... good sign perhaps....

fast and feast at tesco kampar
we had chicken rice for our dinner... actually it was time for us to break our fasting... maybe due of hunger... whats left just only bones and plates and big burpp...

fast and feast at tesco kampar
danny taught his mother how to um........ maybe it was his way to express satisfaction!!

fast and feast at tesco kampar
and me... i was waiting the time.... to finish it all!!

life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
what lies ahead...

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

my wife and my son


walking, originally uploaded by Kulop Ludin.

My Wife
© Andre' Cardenas
Hand in hand we walk together,
God's grace warms us from above.
It's him I thank each day I wake
for blessing me with all your love.

The sunshine in my morning
and the bird that sings my song.
In this life when I am troubled through God it's you who keeps me strong.

The wind beneath my wings
as this eagle takes to flight.
You are the stars that brighten up my sky in the darkness of the night.

The mother of my children and the air that gives me life.
My truest friend of all...
my heart, my soul, my wife.
My Wife by Andre' Cardenas Wife Poems

http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/family/poetry.asp?poem=585

Monday, September 7, 2009

Late in the afternoon we went to kuala kangsar... This was due to my grandmother had forgotten her mobile handset....

Then we went to kuala kangsar ramadhan bazaar... To my surprise... The bazaar was huge and there were many stalls selling many types of food... It was hard to make any decision just to buy a single type of meal....

We spent around one hour there.... Then i set to ipoh...

When it was time for us to break our fast....Four of us... We went for dinner at aziz tomyam in tambun....

Fin...
My son and i