Monday, September 21, 2009

life sometimes...

its nearly 3 am in the morning....
i just got back from chatting with friends...
and the shocking part was one of my friend is getting a divorce after a solid 9 years of marriage.... i never thought of that as i assumed their marriage is full of happiness.... but i was wrong... nearly 2 hours he was sharing/expressing his sadness over the matters. and i did lend my ears as well.

he was a sole provider in his family... all needs were fulfilled by him as he knew he was the head of the family but his wife still had not satisfy. it may be one sided story yet my friend and i listened to the story attentively(3 of us).

my friend had everything.. from a to z, just name them.. he can provide them all...
well paid job.., getting a maid for her wife... and he asked for nothing from his wife... then i realized ... money is not everything. come to think of that, i should be thankful... my wife did not complaining as our rice pot fits enough for three of us.

my friend told, it began when he went offshore to work and left his wife with the wonder of internet... later his wife spent more time chatting through internet rather than him when he was at home. from there, he suspected his wife met someone and the troubles began..

out of blue, one day... his wife asked for a divorce... he coaxed her but she refused and asked him to accept her decision...

now... they are living in the same house but in the different room.. it is like "a house but not a home"... i asked him how he feel about his wife.. he replied.... she is not here... pointing at his heart.
they are waiting for the final decision made by court of syariah.. it is kind of complicated to settle the case as it involves the right to keep their children(they have two children, the rightful ownership of their house and many more.

he must be sad right now... i can feel it....


life is caring and love is binding.....
my son and i
what lies ahead...

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